Can I hang out with my friends? Can I go to the bars with them without looking like a hypocrite? I don't think it's good for him to drink, smoke pot or do anything that might set him on the path to relapse. The problem is he doesn't think he has a problem with alcohol or pot. It's kind of crappy that I can go out and have fun and he can't, but at the same time our circumstances are different. I am a little afraid if I go drinking without him he might decide to do it at home, because he can.
Is he going to be jealous of my getting to drink? Should I be concerned about this? On some level, my life must go on. I don't drink much or often, but do I have to swear off it forever? It's confusing.